I love falling in love. Doesn't everyone? Falling in love is one of the most
powerful experiences I've had in life: everything seems brighter and
more hopeful; my creative juices start flowing; I feel more alive and
need less sleep; I become much more kind, generous, and funny; magic
and synchronicity dance through my days.

So, why do the magic and aliveness get replaced with arguments and struggles?

After my last relationship ended, I decided to take a a break from relationships
and use my training in Commpassionate Communication (NVC), Attachment Theory, Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB), Restorative Systems, and Empathic Life Coaching to explore what I could do as a single person in order to come alive and feel confident and excited about my next relationship.

I'm feeling entirely inspired about how it's going (I wish I'd done this 15 years ago!) and have come up with an approach to being single that I'm excited to share with others. I call it SingledIn.  Find my SingledIn programs on the events page of this site.

Find more about SingledIn at my SingledIn Facebook Group.

What SingledIn Participants have been saying:

"I signed up for SingledIn with a lot of trepidation.  I thought of myself as 'battle-scarred', not wanting to risk re-opening old secret wounds inside by even just entertaining the notion of starting another intimate relationship. At the same time I yearned for healing and a bigger life.  In this program I have been met with gentle empathy, kindness and non-judgment modelled by Eric and freely given by the other participants. It's been a sweet surprise and I am very grateful for a growing sense of support and community."

 "Wow! connection! discovery! learning! growth! feeling happy :) and so excited about the content. this is stuff i'm grappling with right now anyway, right on my learning edge. It's so enlightening to go through these questions."

"I'm feeling grateful for your creating partners to explore the questions so that we can build a sense of community through 1-on-1 connections first.  It's supportive to have a witness as I ask these questions of myself, meets my need for being seen as I discover parts of me and express them... helps reinforce my new knowing of parts of my experience."

"This was only Week 2 of SingledIn and it's exceeded all my expectations.  This program ROCKS!, Eric....  I'm really looking forward with much anticipation to Week 3."

"Wow - what a super-rich experience it was for me to be in conversation with someone and trying to answer the partner questions.  Holy moly, I'm feeling awed, touched, moved, in wonderment about human beings, human dreams, human souls  MMNF learning, deepened self-connection and understanding."

"SingledIn has already knocked my socks off, Eric.  You're onto something big here.  Thanks for asking me to be part of the ride!"

 "Hello Eric, thank you for all you incredible work you are doing.  The partner work is very rich and my heart is singing in connection . Thank you."

 "Much more than an effective relationship-building tool, SingledIn has supported my own adventure in self discovery. I am looking forward to deepening my practice of Nonviolent Communication in all aspects of my life and future relationships."

"I had a very soulful and engaging dialogue with my empathy partner this week.  I experienced a lot of meaning, connection, purpose, community, support in making sense of my life and inviting in self-compassion for my younger self who so longed to contribute to the world."